14weeks - once I hit 16 weeks I felt like a new woman, more relaxed, better perception - able to look at food without disgust and it went similarly for my husband I was able to think of him without contempt & fault finding (must have been a relief for him!).
I bet if your husband new how you felt right now he would be devastated but it is really hard to put things into perspective for anyone else or even ourselves until we start to feel slightly normal.
I have three other women around me that are due around the same time and we are all just coming out of negative thoughts towards our partners and ourselves, some sicker than others.
To the lady who was sick until 26 weeks you poor thing - I found 16 also impossible - 26 would have been an absolute nightmare.
OP - try to write down coherently your feelings and perceptions of how hubby is reacting - once you read it (and you have to be totally honest with yourself) - you might find some of them are unsubstantiated and the others at least give you a solid unhormonal base to talk to him about.
Best of luck - I really hope for you that it all comes together soon.
If not - I just bashed my husband until he came around!!