Oh dear, never thought a quetion on custard would end up in an argument about grammar, Singapore must be a really boring place for a lot of people....
Anyway, thanks for some of the advice I think, most of which I had tried at some point. I did go and have a think about what she did and didn't like and like one of the posts, my baby loves the food I am eating, hates a spoon (unless it has custard on it) and loves eating with her fingers (or mine), so luch today consisted of small pieces of mango and watermelon, carrot sticks, cottage cheese and papaya and pear puree. I got her a nice new bight spoon and she ate the lot...not a jar of custard in sight. Dinner was a similar success...lets see if she is still fooled tomorrow.
Btw, thanks for the suggestion of feeding from the jar, but I hardly ever feed directly from the jar unless I am travelling as she hardly every has a whole jar and would be biffing heaps. Also, my baby does not like banana either (unless I am having one). Strange, gotta be one of my fav fruits!