Thanks for your responses. We returned at midnight Sunday and it was the most magical, romantic 3 days of our lives. The fact that children are discouraged was an advantage as we don't have any and wanted to enjoy a relaxing few days. We have been fortunate to stay in many luxurious places around the world but this one really takes some beating.
BTW BM, when completing the comments form - in response to the question "how did you hear about the Banyan Tree," I gave them your them your website details.