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Author Topic: How do Singaporean wives cope with husbands' infidelity?  (Read 12320 times)
geodome
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« Reply #15 on: 04 June 2008, 0:39:31 am »

Infidelity might not be illegal, but I am sure you can always find something to sue her for. The reason for sueing a person does not necessary have to be the cause of a legal suit. For example, a doctor filed a restraining order against a hypochondriac patient, who is infringing the doctor's private space; but the patient responds by sueing the doctor for malpractice for a totally unrelated medical incident.
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« Reply #16 on: 04 June 2008, 3:51:51 am »

The act is suing, not sueing.  Learn to write English correctly, and while you're at it, get the grammar right as well please
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« Reply #17 on: 04 June 2008, 5:08:44 am »

The act is suing, not sueing. 

Suing is British while Sueing is American. Which is right? Which is wrong? Which is more appropriate for usage? How would you decide for a forum which is neither British nor American?
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« Reply #18 on: 04 June 2008, 21:23:05 pm »

This forum uses the Queen's English.  Get with the programme!  How dare someone wish to use American English in Singapore. How bloody awful!  Now... let's get back to the husbands looking for nookie on the side.
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« Reply #19 on: 05 June 2008, 9:06:14 am »

/// Suing is British while Sueing is American. Which is right? Which is wrong? Which is more appropriate for usage? How would you decide for a forum which is neither British nor American? ///

Singapore was a British colony - does that answer your question?  Grin

But then again, some would say that Singapore now is an American colony - gawd blimey - perish the thought.

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« Reply #20 on: 18 September 2008, 0:06:16 am »

I hate infidelity and will not hesitate to pay back in full. Once trust is broken , for me, it is virtually impossible to regain my trust again. I would rather my husband tell me upfront that he wants to call it quits than have me to find it out much later what he did behind my back. Truly, don't even bother feeling ANYTHING for an ingrate who doesn't treasure you- it simply isn't worth it. Let go and move on- joyfully, victoriously !!! Good riddance to such men !!! 
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« Reply #21 on: 20 September 2008, 15:26:27 pm »

Define infidelity
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« Reply #22 on: 12 January 2009, 11:54:51 am »

Hi,

I think it will help if there are women or men's organisation around that allows similar people to share their hurt, discontent
and grievances, and maybe to explore ways out of knotty situation.

Anyone have any idea? Me, I look into monetary aspect of knotty situations.
 
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« Reply #23 on: 12 January 2009, 12:52:21 pm »

The OP has been posting posts on this issue for some time now under different names asking the same questions in slight different format.

If you are for real, go see a lawyer. 
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« Reply #24 on: 26 January 2009, 23:33:53 pm »

Not trying to pry, just curious that there are actually countries where adultery is illegal. To side step the comparison issue, would you care to name a few countries where you are sure infidelity is illegal. I am not sure if the Islamic countries are in this category. I think if the moral police in Indonesia catches a couple making out (if they are not married to each other), they will probably whipped them. It is against their religion, but I am not sure if it is illegal.

In your country, will they throw you in jail if you caught doing such activities?


Adultery is illegal in South Korea. There was a celebrity case just recently.

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SEOUL, South Korea — One of South Korea's most famous actresses was convicted of adultery Wednesday in a high-profile case that drew renewed attention to a decades-old law prohibiting extramarital affairs.

Ok So-ri, who was handed a suspended jail term, had lost a battle in October to have the ban declared unconstitutional.

"I would like to say I'm sorry for causing so much trouble to society," a somber Ok told reporters after the verdict.

A district court in Goyang, near Seoul, handed Ok a suspended eight-month jail sentence, South Korean media reported, meaning she will not have to serve time. Ok's lover received a six-month suspended term.

There was no immediate word on any plans for appeal.

The sensational sex-and-celebrities case has been tabloid fodder for months, with Ok's challenge to the adultery law adding extra spice.

Last year, Ok acknowledged during a news conference that she had had an affair with an opera singer who was a friend of her husband for a few months in 2006. She stressed the affair was a result of her loveless marriage to actor Park Chul.

The court appeared to show some sympathy for Ok's predicament.

"Though the fact of adultery should be criticized, (the court) issued this ruling taking into account that husband Park Chul's responsibility was not small," the court said, according to cable news channel YTN.

She also "suffered mental pains" due to the exposure of her privacy, the court said.

Ok earlier this year filed a petition to have the adultery ban ruled an unconstitutional invasion of privacy. But in October, the Constitutional Court upheld the ban, part of South Korea's 55-year-old criminal code.

Despite decades of Western influence, South Korea remains deeply conservative and is influenced by a Confucian heritage. Those convicted under the anti-adultery law face prison sentences of up to two years, though few serve time.

Supporters of the adultery ban say it promotes monogamy and keeps families intact. Opponents argue the law violates privacy. Complaints have been filed with the Constitutional Court three times in 1990, 1993 and 2001 to abolish the law, but the court has upheld it every time.

While women's rights group were the ban's biggest supporters in the past when the law was meant to keep philandering husbands in line, in recent years some husbands have begun pressing adultery charges on their unfaithful wives.

The number of adultery cases filed in South Korea has dropped in recent years, declining to 8,070 in 2006 from 12,760 in 2000, according to the Supreme Prosecutors' Office. About 80 percent of those cases were dropped before formal charges were filed, largely because complaints were withdrawn.

Many Muslim nations have anti-adultery laws, some with harsh penalties. Taiwan, Austria, Switzerland and some U.S. states also have laws prohibiting extramarital affairs, according to the Korea Legal Aid Center for Family Relations, a government-funded legal counseling office.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/12/17/ok-sori-south-korean-actr_n_151671.html






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