"All the single ladies"

[The Deal]

I've been on the game here in SG for a while.  I can attest that in my opinion and experience the primary driving factor of the whole "white guys plus local girls" thing is demographics.

If white guys here 35 years old and under didn't date local or other Asian girls then who the hell would we date?  The 25 single and pretty white girls under age 30 in the country (since most men like girls to be a bit younger)?  That's an exaggeration obviously, but the ratio is ridiculously bad.

I've known a lot of, and dated a few, such white chicks here.  They all LOVE the scene here.  They have their pick of men from all over the world.  They have no complaints and don't want to go back to London, Sydney or Atlanta.  I've known several who met their husbands here.

Let's get to the unpleasant fact of the matter though.  There are a lot of white career women here, maybe divorced, who are on the high side of 30, a bit (or more) heavy, and who are looking for love.  Back "home" they would find and be matched against a similar male demographic.  Here, that male demographic has "other options", even if it is the infamous OT or rescuing a 22 year old Thai bar girl to be their live-in.  For them, that's the problem.

[Ready-to-Mingle]

BLUETACK: " ... just a smile can be the start of a new friendship/relationship ... "

How well said indeed, ma'am ... ! Isn't it strange - and somewhat of a pity - that way too many people look way too serious these days .. ?! Black, brown, yellow, red or white ... what the heck... we're all humans aren't we ... with various different abilities, talents and qualities ... ??!!

To ALL the gorgeous "Expat" Ladies:

I also happen to be an "expat", smart, probably (irresistibly) handsome, definitely single ... and totally ready to mingle ...
Any takers .. ?!

,o))

[bluemoo]

SW7 and ReadyToMingle

If you are willing to put your money where your mouth is...

Myself and a friend (both female) are scratching our heads about where to meet 'regular' expat people, especially fellas. Missing the banter.

Um, post an email contact? In for a penny...?

PS dunno if your username anyway related but I have lived SW4 and SW18. Happy days.

[frnd also has prob]

I also have a friend (single aussie man 40's) who doesn't know how to meet westerner girlfriend here. He has been dating asian girls because it's hard to know if westerner is single or not. But all he wants is a down to earth westerner to come home to. He is a very kind hearted man and the asian women just don't cut it as they have different values ie: money, money, religion, ticket to get out of thier country. They are also so childish and pethedic. I am not saying all you asians are like this, but the ones chasing white man seem to be. When you can say you love a person on the first day, just says it all lol...Anyways any western ladies out there wanna meet my friend let me know

[chris1980]

hey guys

I am new to singapore and so far dont know where to meet any anyone. i live in a small area and all it is is guys and a couple of bars and all the women seem to be partnered up - i am looking for some people to start doing stuff with as i only work for a small company and there aint anyone to do anything with or go out hence i am quite bored and can only do so much by myself before going insane..can anyone help?

[TO: frnd also has prob]

Your friend seems interesting.
I'm a 35 yr old Aussie, run my own business.
I can be contact at nightskysg@gmail.com

[coming2thereagain]

Good Luck.  As a male, I like both caucasian & chinese women but really do have a soft spot for singaporean women. They like us epxpats a lot too, so its a win-win !! 

[Listen dont talk]

I met an attractive blonde Aussie female in her mid 20's the other day, but man, she was all talk talk talk about herself and her own opinions. Not interested in a single thing anyone else had to say, except to debate against it.

White ladies- make sure you learn to zip it now and again. You'll get more dates that way.

[learning impaired]

these days, the typical white lady finds it very difficult to zip it, much to their detriment.

It would also help if they lowered their noses a little and lost a few pounds as well.

[me too]

I met an attractive blonde Aussie female in her mid 20's the other day, but man, she was all talk talk talk about herself and her own opinions. Not interested in a single thing anyone else had to say, except to debate against it.

White ladies- make sure you learn to zip it now and again. You'll get more dates that way.

I met an attractive American woman who's the same. She can't deal with silences, she has to fill every second with conversation, even with the most inane chatter. I didn't manage to get a word in edgewise. The experience left me feeling like punching a wall afterwards.

[what?]

these days, the typical white lady finds it very diffic ult to zip it, much to their detriment.

It would also help if they lowered their noses a little and lost a few pounds as well.

when you say lose a few pounds, do you expect your girl to be built like the typical chinese female in singapore? because that body type would be beyond unattainable for most non asians.

[Forgiven]

I met an attractive blonde Aussie female in her mid 20's the other day, but man, she was all talk talk talk about herself and her own opinions. Not interested in a single thing anyone else had to say, except to debate against it.

White ladies- make sure you learn to zip it now and again. You'll get more dates that way.

I met an attractive American woman who's the same. She can't deal with silences, she has to fill every second with conversation, even with the most inane chatter. I didn't manage to get a word in edgewise. The experience left me feeling like punching a wall afterwards.

When I was in college I went on a date with a guy who I liked so much that I hardly knew what to do with myself on the date, I was so overwhelmed. I was the girl who yakked inane through every awkward silence because I was so nervous. He told me, years later, that he almost didn't ask me out on a second date. Thank goodness he did, we were a serious item for many years and had a fantastic relationship. He was a great guy. BTW, I'm a white American. 

[previousp]

Good for you. But I'd still say that women need to learn how to zip it. It might be cute when she's in her late teens/early 20s. But from your mid-20s onwards, it's terribly gauche.