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« Reply #30 on: 01 June 2010, 14:36:51 pm » |
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You mis-understand, I had more than enough friends in my 20's and 30's, in my 20s when first buying a house funds were tighter than in my 30's so more to spend on going out, travel etc etc. I am an advocate of life getting better as you get older, in my 40's now and it life's better than ever
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« Reply #30 on: 01 June 2010, 14:36:51 pm » |
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« Reply #31 on: 01 June 2010, 15:02:53 pm » |
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PS I know guys 10 years your senior having a great time here, 30's are better party years than the 20's when you have less money.
How to misunderstand the above? Yes we get the concept of not having that much available cash when younger, it doesn't mean better "party years". The very fact you mention money shows what your "party" level is at. It's always the ones who use money as an excuse... |
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« Reply #32 on: 01 June 2010, 17:06:51 pm » |
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Oh redacted how narrow your focus
More money equals nicer home, better restaurants, better wine, better holidays and weekends away .. money doesn't buy happiness but having it allieviates the stress of wondering how you're going to make ends meet or simple things like turning down an invite becasue you cannot afford to go.
Women whether Asian or Western or any other creed are not blind to wealth however modest, what ever you may wish for in terms of an egalitarian society the real world doesn't work like that. It's generally a factor in choosing their partners. It's a law of the modern day jungle.
I work less hours in my 40's than I did in my 30's and less in my 30's than my 20's - career is more settled, compensation is better, life is better. If I want to drink cheap booze and stay in a hostel I can, like I did in my 20's or I can invite someone away for a great weekend. That was my point.
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« Reply #33 on: 01 June 2010, 18:16:42 pm » |
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Across cultures females prefer powerful men with good status and financial position so that they are able to ensure protection and support and be optimal for reproduction. Males on the other hand find physical attractiveness desirable (waist hip ratio etc. to differentiate women from children and from pregnant women) to ensure optimal reprodution of genes. Also, prostitution provides males an outlet for their need for sexual variety while enabling them to maintain an ongoing committed relationship = it offers a way of coping with urges that evolutionary pressure has selected for men.
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« Reply #34 on: 01 June 2010, 20:10:28 pm » |
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Men prefer women who do not turn into overweight complaining hags who walk along orchard road with angry faces.
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« Reply #35 on: 01 June 2010, 20:15:38 pm » |
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That's what I'm saying, attractiveness is important - internal and external.
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« Reply #36 on: 02 June 2010, 7:57:32 am » |
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These days I feel its just easier to rent and not to buy. Women have unrealistic expectations from us men. We have to be strong but also not too strong, we have to lead but not too much, we have to turn over all our money to them and keep our mouths zipped when they spend too much, we have to spend all our time trying to make them happy while we are miserable.
So its just easier to be single and to rent. I have been married once and never again.
Asia is a great place for a man, so i dont see what the fuss about getting married is all about if you live here.
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« Reply #37 on: 02 June 2010, 9:33:03 am » |
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welcome,
Clearly your a swell gut to be around. No wonder you need money to enjoy a better experience in life. Clearly your crazy party life when younger or poorer didn't include many women either.
Yes there are women who go straight for the money, but they will also go straight to the pool boy...
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« Reply #38 on: 02 June 2010, 11:21:13 am » |
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So its just easier to be single and to rent. I have been married once and never again.
I plan on doing this soon, but I would like to have a few children first. My plan is to impregnate a woman with a substantial litter and then divorce. It will be tough to stand the married life during those years but I could manage by periodically going on extended business trips. |
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« Reply #39 on: 02 June 2010, 11:25:48 am » |
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I plan on doing this soon, but I would like to have a few children first. My plan is to impregnate a woman with a substantial litter and then divorce.
pinzon - I think you will need a sow or a bitch to have a litter... literally... |
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I plan on doing this soon, but I would like to have a few children first. My plan is to impregnate a woman with a substantial litter and then divorce.
pinzon - I think you will need a sow or a bitch to have a litter... literally... Oh, so that's what he's been doing wrong all these years..... |
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« Reply #41 on: 02 June 2010, 15:16:03 pm » |
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Renting suits me best. Not long term rental though. I get bored too easily
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« Reply #42 on: 02 June 2010, 20:09:52 pm » |
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Why don't you losers turn gay? Since you have so many problems with women. I bet you'd be as dishonest, unfaithful and commitment phobic no matter which man, woman or animal you're with.
When youve had your entire savings wiped out, lost your pension, home and kids then end up paying for something you hadnt done for the rest of your life just because your wife had a fling with another man, it does kind of put you off dont you think ? i am not willing to put my head in the noose again. I am really happy being single and thats the way I will stay thanks so zip it please - man hater |
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« Reply #43 on: 03 June 2010, 15:20:52 pm » |
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Across cultures females prefer powerful men with good status and financial position so that they are able to ensure protection and support and be optimal for reproduction. Males on the other hand find physical attractiveness desirable (waist hip ratio etc. to differentiate women from children and from pregnant women) to ensure optimal reprodution of genes. Also, prostitution provides males an outlet for their need for sexual variety while enabling them to maintain an ongoing committed relationship = it offers a way of coping with urges that evolutionary pressure has selected for men.
"need for sexual variety" - is this true?  is it really a need or a want? |
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« Reply #44 on: 03 June 2010, 16:56:32 pm » |
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It's an evolutionary need. To be reproductively successful males need to have many potetial mates. Modern humans are descendants of male and female ancestors who were successful reproduces. The sexual behaviour of males and females today are the result of reproductively successful behaviours that have been selected for over the history of the species. For a male, with his capacity to reproduce (it only takes few minutes), number of matings would have been a critical factor. Some males would have succeeded in fathering many offspring but others may not have produced at all (because females would have been choosy).
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