I like to have a drink after the children have gone to bed. Not every night but maybe 4/5 nights out of 7 I will have one. My husband seems to think this is a problem. It is only one drink - maybe 2 on a weekend.
I have 2 glasses of wine of an evening, four times a week. Its therapeutic, its relaxing and opens the arteries. Its civilized!
If you can keep your drinking to 1 glass of wine or spirits per night for 4-5 nights per week it will do you no harm.
Don't apologize, ask your husband how much he drinks.