thanks. so primary school is primary school and secondary school is called grammar school but what about 6th form? Do they have to go to a different school or do they remain in their grammar school?
Secondary school is often called Secondary school, grammar, high school (sometimes) or comprehensive, or even Village College in some cases where I used to live, but it's all the same thing, just different names.
In some places they also have middle school where the children go from age 11-13 and then they move up to secondary, which I think is something like the US elementary school system.
One thing I noticed among expats here is that there is a sense of snobbery in the air. Back in their home countries they are generally just an average person. Locals here have a higher quality of life than the people in UK. So why come here and spend a fortune living in a fantasy (hiring condos, apartments, international schools) if not included in the package? well thats exactly that, they are living in a fantasy. If I had kids, I damn well make sure they will go to local schools over 'international' schools anyday. My experience is that the only way to learn about a country is to get mixed in with the locals, integrate and contribute; not shutting yourself from the world because you are an 'expat'.
I don't think you can tar every expat with the same brush - I'm usually the first to admit that the school I pay for here isn't a patch on my old state school in the UK, however, I'm not going to send my kids to local school mainly because I did that when they were younger and they hated it and they've never hated their international school.
I've got experience of both local and international and while I'm sure that there are great local schools out there, our experience wasn't so great and it did put me off and I'm sure you'll agree that if you have less than satisfactory experience of anything, you're not likely to repeat it in a hurry.
As for the condo - well why not? Why would you want to live in the equivalent of a council flat if you can afford something better? I lived in a council block when I was a student - I don't particularly want to repeat the experience. Most Singaporeans I know would jump at the chance to live in a house or a condo and many I have met over the years now do so, renting out their HDB apartments to someone they consider less fortunate.
It's not being spoiled, it's enjoying the moment. We wouldn't live in a place with a pool back home and my kids are well aware of that. When they move away in a few years and end up living in bedsits and shared houses to save money themselves (because I won't be paying their rent), I don't think they'll be coming back here to visit and giving me grief for not giving them the
'chance' to live in an HDB