...Yes PP, you are quite right. I should have said this
can happen, maybe if you do bottles too much in the early days, perhaps? I don't really know as my own experience is only of introducing bottles later once BF is well established, but there does seem to be a problem for a significant amount of women - and bf supporters tend to caution against it. My rather hastily written comment comes because when I am out and about breastfeeding I get lots of people commenting on how bfing didn't work out for them. Several women have gone into more detail and commented on how fast my 5 month old was a finishing her feed when, in their experience, BF-ing was a slow and laborious process which of course it is early on at around the time they found their babies more happy to take a bottle. Maybe they were mixed feeding or they did something wrong that you and your friends have managed to get right...congratulations! I am in no way trying to make bottle feeding expressed milk out to be a crime...I would have happily tried it myself but I've never had a willing and available person on hand offering to do night feeds for me. Maybe I'm the sucker here

It would be interesting to know if early introduction of bottles is cautioned against purely because seeing the convenience bottles can offer might tempt some people to give up BF earlier.
I just have a hard time believing that it's the babies themselves who are making the decision.
If the above is true, then the baby bottle/breast confusion/preference theory is just spreading a myth and is patronising to women, who should be able to make their own decision once fully armed with the facts.
I'm no earth mother and found breastfeeding to be a bit of a slog after a while but was determined to see it through the first year. I had one speedy feeder and one slow, fussy feeder. Having said that, I wouldn't blame anyone for chucking it in after a while. It takes a lot of effort not to be neurotic, wondering if they are getting enough milk (especially if they are sicking it up all the time) and attributing any further fussiness to hunger.
I'm sorry if I bit your head off PP but I feel like there is a distinct lack of sisterhood where breastfeeding is concerned and we should spend more time helping eachother out rather than telling eachother what not to do. If we were friends, I'd have offered to help you do night feeds
