Lots of armchair commentators who lack imagination or understanding for a pregnant mom!
I think you'll find it's because the rest of us just got on with it!
Apparently, "getting on with it" means being mean spirited and unhelpful, if the responses are any guide.
To be clear, I have not contributed to any of these "mean spirited" comments but I understand the sentiment.
Allow me to explain:
Many people disapprove of parents who have lost touch with how to engage with their own children through (over)use of a maid. Ergo, unless OP is fresh off the boat, her question is a bit worrying.
And, if so, better to help her with suggestions than to make unkind or unhelpful comments.
