Suggestions? How do you deal w someone who dumped you yet refused to leave you alone?

[Lost Love]

Ideas?

[Junebug]

I would try talking it out with the person? Maybe the person is lonely, not ready for a relationship but looking for a friend?

[PaulN]

Restraining order?

[hmm]

depends if you want to be in touch with them or not.
sometimes its actually better in terms of moving on in your life if you minimise contact for a while and you have to be strong enough to say so, that's the tough bit. coz otherwise it can be like a wound where you just keep picking the scab off, ya know what i mean?

[C'est la vie]

You know, I'm actually facing the same problem as you right now. He is like...doesnt want to continue the relationship but yet he wants to keep me as a friend...i think he's nutz, that's all! I think i'll tell him NOT TO contact me anymore cos it's complicate to handle this kind of relationship...I dont know where i stand and how should i react if i'm not in the right position, right?

[Been there !]

I had the same problem. Where someone doesn't want you and doesn't want anybody else to have you. I know it is painful.....very painful ! Two options 1.  Be blunt and tell them 'where too go'. 2. Find a new partner and show the new partner off to the old. They will get the hint.
Good Luck and I do understand what you feel, keep your chin up. by the way, I am an Australian male ( just for the record).

[choco]

Geezzz.. i thought i am the only one who have this kind of problem, who can't be strong to myself. But well.. up to now i am struggeling hard to be strong in front of him. I fully understand the feeling and the things i should do, but it's just not easy to do it.. but you just need to remember for not letting your feeling get hurt again.. so you know what you have to do.. be tough to yourself and him/her!!

[Poppette]

Get him a leash with bells  

[WellYeah]

Have your stalker ex meet my ex.  She'll chew anybody up!